Birthday is Great Opportunity to Apologize…

Birthday, on your birthday you may bombarded with the number of WhatsApp Messages, Facebook Wishes & Calls Right….!.Birthday is obviously very important for everyone, on this day we wish that our near and dear wishes us a birthday with positive greeting. When everyone start birthday wishes we find our self energetic.

I personally feel that the birthday is a great opportunity to apologize for mistakes we did in previous year. It’s Psychology that everyone consider Him/Herself as a perfect one including me too.. :), We feel that we are always right for every action we did. but here we have to think about the core psychology that is everybody has different psychology, belief, life values and personality and they will act accordingly to the particular situation. The point of view of same kind of personality will support to each other for example you may find two best friends who’s like and dislike are similar by nature.

We are social animal and we love to live together, We live in a group (family member, friends, colleagues, neighbor or relative). Group consist with the different kinds of personality, so its not necessary that the decision we have taken that is universally acceptable. Our one decision will surly going to effect to the social group directly or indirectly.

Than question arise why to sorry on the birthday only?, why to spoil our joyful day?, there are many other days too.. Why not to Apologize on any other days… Well i have answer for the same..

If you apologize to someone on your most happiest time (that is our birthday), they people will surly consider our request and you will be having opportunities to start beautiful relationship. Actually i am apologize to someone ( In case also when i don’t know my mistake) to relax my self only. I Did it today also.. those who wish me my birth day i send them thanks message including following message.

Yes… Today (12-06-2016) is my birthday, I have completed 25 years. Everybody have their own belief and principle, same way have also my own principle. I am considering my every birthday as opportunity for apologizes.

In previous year, any time anywhere – knowingly or unknowingly – directly or indirectly if I did any mistakes, if I hurt you anywhere than kindly forgive me. I deep hearty felt sorry if I did anything wrong with you.

So Sorry Dil Se….

It is giving me feeling of joy, and life is all about how we enjoy each moment of our life. Joy is all about how we make smile on others face. If a single sad relationship converts into joyful by this efforts your birthday will be most memorable.

Skills and Capabilities…

Skills and Capabilities both like power generator for success. We should never compromise with that. – Umeshkumar Tarsariya

“Successful person never compromise with their skills and capabilities.”

As a management student, I am always observing how the successful people works, how the act and how the behave with their employee. By this observation, I found one characteristics of such people and that is “Successful person never compromise with their skills and capabilities.”

Every human being on our planet has their own core competency in relevant interest area. But think if they are kept in cage, will they able to enhance their skill or will it be beneficial to someone else as per expectation? Your answer will surly no.. Right?

For the a seed only fertile land is not enough. To grownup from seed to tree it must required external source like proper sunlight, proper space & proper gardener, only seed cannot be able to do anything.

By correlating our self with a seed, we are far luckiest than it. Seed is non living object, so it has no option for selecting proper gardeners, it can’t say that they need sunlight or space. There is hardly little probability for the seed to get such environment to fulfill its life’s purpose. We have choice of selecting fertile land, a good gardener, proper space to grownup. Don’t be like non living object.

Whether you are on a job, business or any kind of damn situation always gives the priorities to your skills and capabilities. If you find yourself in such situation where by your talent, skills & capabilities gets demoralize left that place or fight for justice. There is nothing wrong in it. It is the most stupid decision to remain employee where your skills & capability don’t get enhancement. Our skills and capabilities are those things by which we are able to sustain our existence on this earth.

Born and Death

Born and Death Happens at Every Moments of Our Life. – Umeshkumar Tarsariya

As we all knows “human is a social animal”. We as a human being wants to live in a group for the love, affection and the security motives. From the childhood we have meet the numbers of people some are very close and some are those to whom we don’t want to meet again. Our Mother, Father, Brother or Sister & Husband or Wife this are the closest relatives in our life, No one is permanently with us. One day will come when the soul of our relatives will left his/her body and that is for sure.

We are considering our self as just a body but the spiritual truth is something different. Nowadays the new field of spiritual science is start taking its place in education world. It’s also started to accepting the concepts of spirituality like aura body, rebirth, vibrations and so on.. I say that the spirituality still many step ahead that the modern science.

There is a psychology behind not accepting our self as a soul. There is no communication between the death body and living body. One side is completely unseen it doesn’t mean that there is just a once side. Those who left their body, they have never be able to connect us and hence we interpreted that he or she is no more. The incidence of leaving body is same like we left the School, Collages, Houses, Organisation, and Country.

Once the School gets over, the collage starts. Collage gets over the real life education starts, we left house we enter in to new house, we left the organization we start working in our own or someone else organization, we left one country we join another country. Even in present also we passes the present second of the time and we enter into the new second of the time. There are numbers of cells gets death and at same time & numbers of cells gets new lives in our body. The same way the soul lefts the body, It will gets the new body.

We have numbers of examples of real rebirth incidence. The Victims are belonging the different region & Religion so one thing is pretty clear that the rules of the nature is same for all human being.

So personally gives my own definition to the life is “The tenure between two things is a life, starting of the relationship is a born and once we end up relation that is death”.

So always say goodbye with smiley face. 🙂

Acceptance of Reality….

Progress is not possible without acceptance of reality of belief. – Umeshkumar Tarsariya

It is inner nature of humans that he is always trying to prove himself right. Sometimes this belief of life seems to have the opposite effect. This can be interior and exterior too. Interior refers to the self-soul level while exterior refers to one person to another person. Whatever interior is, will surly reflect on exterior.

“Negativity is cannibalistic. The more you feed it, the bigger and stronger it grows.” — Bobby Darnell

See, I know that when we approach to some people to make them awake about their wrong belief, he or she will surly reject to accept it as for them all their beliefs are right. This is very crucial thing as no one is ready for acceptance of reality as he or she is bounded with wrong belief. This belief will get more strengthen with the tenure. The more is tenure duration, more difficulties will arise for acceptance of reality.

Let’s understand this thing through example, A man holding a stone in a hand for around one or two decade believing that it is a stone of diamond. One day, a stone identification expert lady came to him and says him that “This is not a diamond; it is just a normal stone“. Than what will happen, will be he ready to accept it? No… Defiantly no, because he has invested 10 to 20 year in belief that this is a valuable gems stone which will gives him a sizeable amount of return. One side an expert lady having years of experience and education is field of stone analysis and on counter side this guy having wrong belief. At this stage if we think from the mind of his person we will defiantly oppose that lady and doubt on his education and expertise.

Here through this example, a stone is just an example. It can be anything like “I am The Popular Blogger”. If I am? Than I must be get a positive reviews on each post from my reader that how my article helped them in solving their problem?. If my belief is that “I am a Best Single”. If I am? Then I must be invite to sing a song eventually on any occasion like get to gather, picnic and so on..

Rather than bearing cost it is advisable to compromise with wrong belief.

Today same thing happens with us also. If an expert person came to use and gives counselling we will surely not be ready for acceptance at the cost of our belief. Yes I am defiantly aware that every individual having their own values and belief and that should not be hurt. But wrong belief may be dangerous as it will effect inverted. Rather than bearing cost it is advisable to compromise with wrong belief. Somewhere in the corner of mind we knows that realization of reality will helps to grown up but we are in a dilemma that “How to identify that my belief is true or not?”

“For those who believe, no proof is necessary. For those who don’t believe, no proof is possible.” — Stuart Chase

I personally applied simple formulae to identify wrong belief or true belief in my life. See I personally feel that this can be understood through only means of self-analyses. And self-analyses are possible through question and answering with self. So I am habitual to ask question to myself.

For example, Let’s see how I identified my belief “I am a Blogger.” is right of wrong:- Firstly I become neutral, I try to understand the past to present situation without being on side of true or wrong.

I ask myself, is blogging is my passion?

I got answer, I am blogging since 2009, and still I continue it with revenue of blog management and cup of coffee. I am spending all my extra time to write articles, it’s like a hobbies for me. As its give me pleasure it’s prove that blogging is my passion.

Are people recognising my belief?

I got answer yes that friends, masters, subordinates, trainers all the shareholders associated with me always appreciate my blogging through review or other means. It’s mean that I am on the right track.

Is my belief result anything?

Firstly, I already told that it’s give pleasure to me. It’s become hobbies for me so I may work on blog for more than usual working hours. Second, this belief that I am a blogger helps me to distinguish from other people as uniqueness away have preference. This uniqueness helps me to develop confidence level.

So, by self-analyses I have come to conclusion that my belief system is working in my favour that leads me to characteristics of success. So my belief is that “I am a blogger” is right for me.

I hope I make a sense to this topic, Here on this post I just share my real life experience it doesn’t mean I am right.

Not Just Listening, Implications Brings Results..

Any information is useless until it’s gets implemented. – Umeshkumar Tarsariya


“Only listening is not enough” that what i feel. Many a time in my life I also face this stage where I listen to someone and I realize whatever that person is speaking is true and should be implemented and will gives 100% positive results, but my laziness doesn’t allow me to do that.

I have studied one things in my life…

The things which consumes time we feel laziness in that particular task, For example

we know doing exercises regularly is good for health but as its consume lots of time for result, we avoid exercises.

homeopathy vs allopathy, We prefers allopathy as its gives fastest recovery compared to homeopathy or ayurvedic medicines.

Studies, study regularly will gives good results in exam, but as study daily result in long run, we avoid it. Our mind says we will study all this thing.

So the basic question here is “what is the use of such information for us as our self?” No use, Until we act on that…!

There are very few people who use such information for act, believe me this kind of people are full of confidence and energy as that feeling that “I am one of those few people who has control on their laziness” gives them power to differentiate them self from lazy people.

I strongly believes that one must have any single habit which they do with full joy “REGULARLY”. This habit leads to confidence and the person who has confidence is called “the half battle winner”