Progress is not possible without acceptance of reality of belief. – Umeshkumar Tarsariya
It is inner nature of humans that he is always trying to prove himself right. Sometimes this belief of life seems to have the opposite effect. This can be interior and exterior too. Interior refers to the self-soul level while exterior refers to one person to another person. Whatever interior is, will surly reflect on exterior.
“Negativity is cannibalistic. The more you feed it, the bigger and stronger it grows.” — Bobby Darnell
See, I know that when we approach to some people to make them awake about their wrong belief, he or she will surly reject to accept it as for them all their beliefs are right. This is very crucial thing as no one is ready for acceptance of reality as he or she is bounded with wrong belief. This belief will get more strengthen with the tenure. The more is tenure duration, more difficulties will arise for acceptance of reality.
Let’s understand this thing through example, A man holding a stone in a hand for around one or two decade believing that it is a stone of diamond. One day, a stone identification expert lady came to him and says him that “This is not a diamond; it is just a normal stone“. Than what will happen, will be he ready to accept it? No… Defiantly no, because he has invested 10 to 20 year in belief that this is a valuable gems stone which will gives him a sizeable amount of return. One side an expert lady having years of experience and education is field of stone analysis and on counter side this guy having wrong belief. At this stage if we think from the mind of his person we will defiantly oppose that lady and doubt on his education and expertise.
Here through this example, a stone is just an example. It can be anything like “I am The Popular Blogger”. If I am? Than I must be get a positive reviews on each post from my reader that how my article helped them in solving their problem?. If my belief is that “I am a Best Single”. If I am? Then I must be invite to sing a song eventually on any occasion like get to gather, picnic and so on..
Rather than bearing cost it is advisable to compromise with wrong belief.
Today same thing happens with us also. If an expert person came to use and gives counselling we will surely not be ready for acceptance at the cost of our belief. Yes I am defiantly aware that every individual having their own values and belief and that should not be hurt. But wrong belief may be dangerous as it will effect inverted. Rather than bearing cost it is advisable to compromise with wrong belief. Somewhere in the corner of mind we knows that realization of reality will helps to grown up but we are in a dilemma that “How to identify that my belief is true or not?”
“For those who believe, no proof is necessary. For those who don’t believe, no proof is possible.” — Stuart Chase
I personally applied simple formulae to identify wrong belief or true belief in my life. See I personally feel that this can be understood through only means of self-analyses. And self-analyses are possible through question and answering with self. So I am habitual to ask question to myself.
For example, Let’s see how I identified my belief “I am a Blogger.” is right of wrong:- Firstly I become neutral, I try to understand the past to present situation without being on side of true or wrong.
I ask myself, is blogging is my passion?
I got answer, I am blogging since 2009, and still I continue it with revenue of blog management and cup of coffee. I am spending all my extra time to write articles, it’s like a hobbies for me. As its give me pleasure it’s prove that blogging is my passion.
Are people recognising my belief?
I got answer yes that friends, masters, subordinates, trainers all the shareholders associated with me always appreciate my blogging through review or other means. It’s mean that I am on the right track.
Is my belief result anything?
Firstly, I already told that it’s give pleasure to me. It’s become hobbies for me so I may work on blog for more than usual working hours. Second, this belief that I am a blogger helps me to distinguish from other people as uniqueness away have preference. This uniqueness helps me to develop confidence level.
So, by self-analyses I have come to conclusion that my belief system is working in my favour that leads me to characteristics of success. So my belief is that “I am a blogger” is right for me.
I hope I make a sense to this topic, Here on this post I just share my real life experience it doesn’t mean I am right.